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Harper | they/them it/its | 22 | bi | artist and self shipper | tumblr | twitter | paypal

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Other Notes:
- Newcomers please make sure to check my romantic list for sharing boundaries
- Not required, but I'd be very appreciative if mutuals would tag canon x canon ships involving my f/os, if the original post doesn't already. (example: #lucifer x chloe or #deckerstar would be equally helpful ways to tag)
- I'd also be very grateful if mutuals would tag for pregnancy/tokophobia, it makes me very uncomfortable
- I'm okay with "x don't look" tags on my posts, though I completely understand why other people might not be
- I've experienced age regression in the past after periods of intense stress or remembering trauma. I don't talk about it much because I get nervous about assumptions people might make, but I do seek comfort from my parental f/os when it happens. I do not associate myself with any kink communities such as ddlg/cgl and they are not welcome on my blog.

F/O List
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Romantic

I am almost always uncomfortable sharing my f/os to some degree, and I won't follow back new people if I can't find a tag to block. If there's a lock (πŸ”’), then please don't interact with me at all if you ship with the character.
(None of this applies if you have a platonic/familial relationship with them!)
My discomfort doesn't make your ship with the character any less valid! You deserve to be happy with the characters you love!

*mutuals from before character was added are fine

currently hyperfixated (changes frequently)

CharacterSourceTag
Inigo the Brave x πŸ”’INIGO (Skyrim Mod)spiders and sweetrolls
NanakKhajiit Will Follow (Skyrim Mod)beyond words
BikhaiKhajiit Will Follow (Skyrim Mod)tooth and nail

often returned to

CharacterSourceTag
SenshiDungeon Meshithe way to a man's heart
KarlachBaldur's Gate 3just buzzing
Lucifer Morningstar xLucifer (Netflix)lovingly indulgent
Jaal Ama Darav* xMass Effect: Andromedawonder of the universe
Tali'Zorah xMass Effect Trilogysofter
Varric Tethras* xDragon Age seriesunwelcome tagalong
Josephine Montilyet xDragon Age: Inquisitionthe games i'd play
Isabela xDragon Age IIworth the risk
Arnold Judas Rimmer x πŸ”’Red Dwarflittle lamb
Matt Miller x πŸ”’Saints Row 4one condition: never stop
T'ikaeoriginal character (for the Predator franchise)#r: something unfamiliar + #oc: t'ikae

quietly loved

Character (ship name)SourceTag
Jackie WellesCyberpunk 2077never not nice
Cisco Ramon xCW The Flashgummy boyfriend
Florian Phineas Horatio Aldebrant, Esquire xDragon Age: Origins (Witch Hunt DLC)hothouse flower

Platonic

I've seen people ask about it so to clarify: it doesn't bother me when other self shippers have relationships of any nature with my platonics/familials! In fact, I'd probably encourage it! Obvious exceptions are if the ship would fall under my dni criteria.

πŸ’–: Best friends

CharacterSourceTag
Lucien FlaviusSkyrim Moda worthy contribution
KaidanSkyrim Modarmored heart
Trixie EspinozaLuciferlittle urchin
Ella Lopez πŸ’–Lucifersushi shirt!
Wembley FraggleFraggle Rockbongo buddy
Langley LongseerSkyrim (Mod)hate you too
MerengueAnimal Crossingour friendship is sweet
JulianAnimal Crossingsearching the skies
David ListerRed Dwarfshitty guitar
Mokey FraggleFraggle Rockart about your feelings
Asha OdekarSaints Row 4wasting bullets
Kinzie Kensington πŸ’–Saints Row serieskiller keystroke
PinkyAnimaniacs 2020echolollipop
The Iron Bull πŸ’–Dragon Age: Inquisitionno pants fridays
Dorian πŸ’–Dragon Age: Inquisitiondramas abound
SeraDragon Age: Inquisitionfriendly roof time
ColeDragon Age: Inquisitionsmall comforts
MerrillDragon Age 2homemaking
Sten πŸ’–Dragon Age: Originsconfusing companions
ZevranDragon Age: Originsintentions
AlistairDragon Age: Originsfumbling
ShaleDragon Age: Originsdon't get squished
ShrekShrek The Musical (2013 starring Brian d'Arcy James)a little bit like me
Garrus VakarianMass Effect Trilogyback again

Familial

I've seen people ask about it so to clarify: it doesn't bother me when other self shippers have relationships of any nature with my platonics/familials! In fact, I'd probably encourage it! Obvious exceptions are if the ship would fall under my dni criteria.

Parents

CharacterSourceTag
Mordin SolusMass Effect Trilogyjust the thing
Sahuna Ama Darav (mother in law)Mass Effect: Andromedatrue family true home
RoscoeAnimal Crossingyou're not so scary
MichaelThe Good Placethe good dad
H.R. WellsCW The Flashcrazy caffeinated
Harry WellsCW The Flashtransdimensional adoption
BearBear in the Big Blue Housesingsong teddy
Oleg KirrlovSaints Row 3ambiguously comforting
Rick J19ΞΆ7 aka "Doofus Rick"Rick and Mortybest rick!!
Big Nutbrown HareGuess How Much I Love Youpending

Siblings

CharacterSourceTag
Dr. Sylvester AshlingEpithet Erasedsheep dreams
Molly BlyndeffEpithet Erasedbear hugs
Giovanni PotageEpithet Erasedclose knit
Johnny GatSaints Rowlethal bond
Stiles StilinskiTeen Wolfthe best at plans
Eleanor ShellstropThe Good Placefork off eleanor
Nick WildeZootopiatoot toot

Other

CharacterSourceTag
Padok WiksMass Effect 3a good fracas
Peter HaleTeen Wolfshould've stayed dead
WynneDragon Age: Originsdearest moments

Crushes

πŸ”: has been on the romantic list before

CharacterSource
ScrimshawBillie Bust Up
TeraBOTW
Asha OdekarSaints Row 4 (also a platonic f/o)
Lace HardingDragon Age: Inquisition
Cedric the SensationalSofia the First
πŸ” Derek HaleTeen Wolf
πŸ” MantisGuardians of the Galaxy

Group Tags

TagSourceCharacters
g: fate or flukeSkyrim (modded)Inigo the Brave + 1 billion custom followers
g: fuckin government agents...Saints Row seriesKinzie Kensington, Asha Odekar, Oleg Kirrlov
ot3: varrgraybelaDragon Age 2Varric, Isabela, and my s/i Gray
ot3: joseperricDragon Age: InquisitionVarric, Josephine, and my s/i inq!Harper

Enemies

I don't mean to be disrespectful to anyone who likes these characters or even ships with them, I wouldn't block anyone over it but personally it is my life's mission to take out their kneecaps.

CharacterSourceTag
MichaelLucifer (Netflix)beats michael with a chair
Kate ArgentTeen WolfN/A
Eobard Thawne / Reverse FlashCW The FlashN/A
Brent NorwalkThe Good PlaceN/A
EndeavorMy Hero AcademiaN/A
ZenMystic MessengerN/A
Ross GellerFriendsN/A

Self Inserts

Mass Effect 1-3
Trilogy!Harper - Born on Earth and raised there for most of their childhood, until their family moved around in their teens. They ended up on Omega, and upon reaching adulthood began seeking a way off the station and as far away from their parents' home as possible. In ME2 they run into Shepard, who at first offers transportation. They follow the party to Mordin's clinic and join the fight, leading Shepard to believe they'd be a good addition to the Normandy crew. Partner: Tali'Zorah. Found family: Mordin Solus. tag: #s/i: defender 🌌🏠

Mass Effect: Andromeda
Andromeda!Harper - Same origin story as Trilogy!Harper. They catch wind of the Initiative and its plans to explore a whole new galaxy. They sign up with the intention of documenting locations and events via art, but it's considered a waste of resources and they aren't released from cryo until the human pathfinder gives the order. Partner: Jaal Ama Darav. tag: #s/i: explorer πŸŒŒπŸš€

Saints Row
No nickname - Johnny Gat's illegally adopted younger sibling. Gains Oleg as a father figure in SR3, dates Matt in SR4/post-SR3. Chaotic, playful, impulsive. Best friends with Kinzie. tag: #s/i: criminal 🧨πŸ’₯
Additional OC: Cara - My boss character, mostly for games 1 and 2 but fills in the role whenever needed. Friend of Johnny, role model for Harper. Uses "female voice 1" from SR2.⭐️ AUs, Timelines, Lore ⭐️

Dragon Age Series
DA:I - Inquisition!Harper
Two equally used versions, one is the Inquisitor, the other isn't. The non-Inquisitor version calls out to the player from their little shack on a hill in the Storm Coast. They saw the fight on the beach from meeting Bull and are curious about you and your situation. You decide to let them join the party because, to quote the dialogue wheel, "I don't see why not." Partners: Varric, Josephine (crush on Lace Harding). Friend group: Iron Bull, Dorian, Sera, Cole. tag: #s/i: inq! πŸ‘πŸΉ
DA2 - Gray
Dwarven server at The Hanged Man. Given name is Grada, but asks everyone to call them Grady/Gray instead. Partners: Varric, Isabela. tag: #s/i: gray βš”πŸ»
DA:O - Meraad
The child of two Tal-Vashoth, cheerful but sheltered. They are largely unaware of social custom, both Qunari and otherwise, due to their isolated upbringing. Otherwise, they had quite a happy childhood, especially considering the danger their parents' background brought. Familial figure: Wynne. Friend group: Sten, Shale, Alistair, Zevran, Leliana. tag: #s/i: meraad 🌊😊
Additional OC: Hera Aeducan
My Warden/Hero of Ferelden in DA:O. Dwarven archer, former princess. Very polite, reserved, and can talk herself out of most if not all situations. Strives to be honorable, but not necessarily lawful. tag: #oc: hera ae.ducan

Skyrim
UNDER RECONSTRUCTION
Nord and Khajiit versions used interchangeablyDragonborn!Harper
Mod Follower!Harper
tag: #s/i: dragonbum βš”πŸ‰

Dungeon Meshi
No Nickname - A half ogre/half elf who spends their time studying the flora of the dungeon's second floor and practicing alchemy. They are also an artist and archer. They wanna kiss Senshi so bad it makes them look stupid

Epithet Erased
No Nickname - Their epithet allows them to manipulate emotions and bodily functions associated with emotion, including their own. They wind up in the museum after hours on the same night as Molly, Giovanni, and Slyvie, as they were hiding in the restroom due to a buildup of repressed emotions being accidentally released. They later think of those three kids as adoptive siblings.

Lucifer (Netflix)
No Nickname - An artist who moved to LA to do commissions for eccentric rich people. They met Lucifer when their friends dragged them into his nightclub, and sparked a strange connection with him. He feels a flicker of their emotions every time they change. Coexists with Chloe, including her being special, except she's Lucifer's platonic soulmate. tag: #s/i: soulmate πŸ₯ƒπŸ˜ˆ

Red Dwarf
No Nickname - Introduced during series 2 between episodes 3 and 4. The Red Dwarf crew stumbles upon The Descendant, a worn down exploration ship drifting through space. It is unresponsive to all attempts at communication. They board to look for surviving humans and supplies, and discover one of the old crew, a security guard, in stasis. This crew member assists the boys with loading supplies onto Red Dwarf and joins them, leaving the empty ship behind. Partner: Arnold J. Rimmer. tag: #s/i: dwarfer πŸš€β€

CW The Flash
Heartstring - Member of Team Flash, a metahuman with the power to manipulate others' emotions through touch (and as they develop their power, from a distance as well). Partner: Cisco Ramon. Family: Harry Wells, HR Wells, Sherloque Wells, Nash Wells, Ralph Dibny. tag: #s/i: heartstring πŸ’–πŸ€
Puppeteer - Heartstring's villainous doppelganger from another universe. Punk/lovecore aesthetic. Multiple versions: Earth 2 (works for Zoom), Splinter (Heartstring becomes a villain in response to HR's death), X Amunet (Puppeteer and Amunet Black are dating), and Elseworlds (Puppeteer and Mr. Ramon are dating). Partners: Reverb, Amunet Black, Mr. Ramon. tag: puppeteer au πŸ’”βœ‚οΈ

Teen Wolf
No Nickname - Adopted into the Stilinski family at age 12, becoming an older sibling to not only Stiles, but his best friend Scott. In looking after them, they get dragged into the supernatural, and eventually become a werewolf themself. Partner: Derek Hale. Family: Noah Stilinski, Stiles Stilinski, Scott McCall, Melissa McCall, Alan Deaton, Deucalion, Peter Hale. 20 years old in season 1. tag: #s/i: woof πŸŒ•πŸΊ

Tagging System

SPECIAL BLACKLIST TAGS
I've had issues with certain tw tags attracting unwanted attention such as kink blogs. To avoid this, I make censored versions of those tw tags for my followers to block, and do my very best to be consistent in how they're formatted. At the moment, they include:
- #em.eto tw
- #pe.riod tw

  • #harper has spoken: all original posts

  • #harper's making art: my art

  • #bug sized posting: age regression. I may talk about small children's media, toys, or my parental f/os taking care of me

  • #harper's watching [show], #harper's playing [game], #harper's reading [book]: not specifically self ship related, just for liveblogging media so I can look back on the adventure or others can blacklist it

  • character tag prefixes - "r:" for romantic, "p:" for platonic, "f:" for familial, and "g:" for group

  • #[name] tag [emoji]: for mutuals I interact with frequently. I sometimes forget to make these or can't decide on an emoji to use, so please don't take it personally if you don't have one

My Art

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